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Back to life with Barcelona – my first real solo trip in 3 years

November 19, 2016

It’s been three years since I was living abroad. An although it seems to shape a huge part of my identity today, seeing the reminder on Facebook gave me a sense that it was very much a past that I was holding on to. Since my venture abroad alone, I had travelled a lot. But mainly to see friends, with friends or family etc. As I boarded my Vueling flight to Barcelona I had extremely mixed feelings. Could I have forgotten how to travel alone? I also wondered:

  • Perhaps I’m not as daring as I used to be
  • Perhaps I won’t make friends
  • Maybe the things I enjoyed then I won’t now
  • Am I too old to stay at a hostel?
  • Why am I bombarding poor Barcelona, along with the millions of tourists it already suffers?
  • Do I really even know how to speak Spanish anymore?


The one that really got to me was:

Will I enjoy myself? Or had I romanticised the idea of travelling?

I went into my trip really open minded. I got off at BCN airport and got my instructions to where I was staying in Spanish, I purchased the right ticket – I felt good. But after suffering broken down trains, travelling for 2+ hours on the underground, and the fact that I had become very ill over last few days (The Damn Flu) I couldn’t help feel a little weary as I approached my hostel.

Casa Gracia, what store front. Decadent, fancy, overwhelming maybe? It was larger than I expected, but even more beautiful than I could have expected too. Really friendly people working there, clean and just a  feast for the eyes at every turn. See Casa Gracia on places to stay for more information.

After sorting out my things and collapsing on my bed with two paracetamols, I contemplated sleeping for the rest of the day. It was now 4.30pm and I hadn’t eaten anything since the croissant on my flight in the morning. In came in Jorge, we had a Spanglish dialogue for around 5 minutes and I discovered he was leaving for a trip the next day, so wouldn’t be around for two days. We talked about language, the culture of Chile (where he’s from) and how much he loved Barcelona. I immediately left the conversation feeling better. He told me he may see me later at the hostel intercambio (language exchange) and I got my self freshened up and headed to the hostel restaurant.


useful websites for booking local experiences directory

After eating I felt better, and oh, how a coffee can bring you back to life! I decided to take my own advice and used my useful websites for looking local experiences page. I checked out couchsurfing – a website for finding a place to stay, events and meeting people, also a website I’ve never used before (but heard good things about). I searched Barcelona and loads of events started to pop up. At 6.30pm I discovered a Paella event starting at 8pm. If you know me you’ll know two things: 1. Food is life; 2. I love Paella. I wondered if I was too late to join but whatsapped the number regardless. “Hi am I too late? I’d love to join tonight!” The organiser sent me a voice note: “Hi! No not at all, meet us at Poble Sec station at 8pm, we’d love to have you join!”

You can see my full experience of Grandmas’s Paella Party here, but in short. I spent time with a warm and energetic host, had homemade paella and tapas with people from all over the world, and then danced the night away at a live music jam session – all for 20 Euro. You can see a few other things I did on my trip below. Click on any that seem like your type of thing to see full details, directions and pictures! (Note: not all links are clickable but if you ever have any questions, feel free to contact me on my social channels or email me). I haven’t been as active as I would’ve liked on this trip due to being ill. But I leave the trip assured of my love of Spanish culture, wanting to perfect my Spanish to fluency and knowing that I must soon move to a new country as the experience really nurtures my soul.

Things I did in Barcelona

Grandma’s Paella Party (click for more details)


Photography tour with Intrepid Urban Adventures (click for more details)


Dining at my hostel – Casa Gracia (click for more details)


Hiking in Montseny mountains with a guide from Trip4real (click for more details)


Went to a reggae clash with a local


Had 2 euro tapas and wine in a local bar


Why go to Barcelona?

I’ve recently – but not consciously, been comparing countries in my head to people. Barcelona I likened to that person you know that every one likes. Seriously, it’s great, naturally charming, good weather and undeniably beautiful. In fact, I’ve never met a soul that didn’t like Barcelona because it is utterly beautiful and full of gems. The only complaint people tend to have is that it is too touristy. Working in the travel industry and having friends who live in Barcelona, I’m all too aware about Barcelona’s tourist problem, congesting the streets and making it hard to get a meal at your local restaurants.

Before my trip I spoke with a person from the Barcelona tourism board. He was at an annual travel industry event called World Travel Market. I asked him why Barcelona continued to promote tourism as they were already so crowded? He explained that what Barcelona wants is for the tourists to disperse, and to know: there is life beyond Las Ramblas! In short, Barcelona wants to show you more than its extremely famous qualities and really take your time to get to know it. And I’m sure, we can all identify with that.

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    November 19, 2016 at 11:32 pm

    This post was awesome to read! I love the photo of your shadow, it gave me inspiration to try the same thing! I recently posted about solo travel too! I’m so happy I found your blog!

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      Wading Wade
      November 19, 2016 at 11:42 pm

      Brooke you are so kind, I’m so glad I could inspire you to do the same thing! I really like your blog by the way, super creative and really informative. Following <3

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    Monseny Mountains: hiking just outside of Barcelona – Wading Wade
    December 4, 2016 at 4:14 pm

    […] To see the full itinerary of my Barcelona experience, see Back to Barcelona – my first real solo trip in 3 years. […]

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    Montseny Mountains: hiking just outside of Barcelona – Wading Wade
    December 4, 2016 at 5:28 pm

    […] To see the full itinerary of my Barcelona experience, see Back to Barcelona – my first real solo trip in 3 years. […]

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    February 15, 2017 at 3:41 pm

    I was so close to Barcelona a couple of years ago when I visited Girona and stayed nearby in a the mountains. Its such a beautiful area but really regretted not having the time to visit Barcelona itself, but you always need a reason to return right? Great post

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      Wading Wade
      February 15, 2017 at 3:53 pm

      Now Girona is a place I want to visit! Home of El Celler de Can Roca right? I heard food there is pretty spectacular aside from ECDCR too. Definitely return, and thank you.

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    February 15, 2017 at 3:47 pm

    Ooohhhh that cake!! I haven’t been to Barcelona but I like the idea that it’s like the friend everyone enjoys – def on the list!

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      Wading Wade
      February 15, 2017 at 3:54 pm

      Haha best food was there by far! Thanks!

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    February 15, 2017 at 4:15 pm

    I can totally relate to this. I began travelling again after my divorce – my ex could not cope at all with travel. I know the feeling of wondering if I was really up to it again.

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    February 15, 2017 at 4:20 pm

    I love your honesty about your mixed feelings! I felt the same way too, it’s human and to be honest, I think it’s also natural, after all it’s a huge adventure, right?

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      Wading Wade
      February 15, 2017 at 6:03 pm

      It is for sure… but sad to see the day gone that I was so fearless!

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    February 15, 2017 at 4:36 pm

    I love this! Barcelona is high on my list of places I want to visit, and with good flight prices available, I might just cross it off sooner rather than later.

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      Wading Wade
      February 15, 2017 at 6:04 pm

      Kris honestly sometimes I see really cheap flights there. My flight there was only 80 pounds I think! (From UK)

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    February 15, 2017 at 5:53 pm

    Such an inspirational post – good on you for making the most out of your trip and seeing what Barcelona has to offer! It’s one of my favourite cities 🙂

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      Wading Wade
      February 15, 2017 at 6:05 pm

      You’ve got good city taste 😉

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    Kyntra Strickland
    February 16, 2017 at 2:37 am

    Thank you for being so honest in this. I love Barcelona, I’ll be going back for the 3rd time this summer. I loved your activities, I’m going to look into the photography tour for sure. Thank you for sharing!!

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      Wading Wade
      February 17, 2017 at 12:30 pm

      Oh nicee! I’d love to see some of yours as I’ll definitely be revisiting 🙂

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    February 16, 2017 at 7:54 pm

    Looks like you ended up having an awesome trip! You also took a lot of tours, something I think I don’t do enough of. A photography tour sounds really cool too!

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      Wading Wade
      February 17, 2017 at 12:30 pm

      To be honest I don’t normally, but sometimes it’s good to break up the wandering 😉

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    February 16, 2017 at 8:00 pm

    Good you overcame your doubts and enjoyed yourself during your trip! I have never been to Barcelona, but I have a feeling it might come up soon 🙂 The hike you did in the Montseny mountains looks like something unusual to do. I like that!


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      Wading Wade
      February 17, 2017 at 12:31 pm

      Barcelona always makes its way onto people’s agenda… hope you have an awesome time!

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    Buena Paz L Montero
    February 17, 2017 at 11:12 pm

    Thanks for sharing… I do sometimes wonder if traveling solo would still give me happiness same as I travel with my kids. I do few girls trip and though it’s amazing and fun.. I still feel empty inside & wish to have the family with me. BUT glad you had fun in Barcelona:)

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      Wading Wade
      February 17, 2017 at 11:39 pm

      It must be so special to travel with kids, it’s like what they say about sharing it with people you love ❤

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